Don't wait to say I will do it tomorrow.
All we have is today to choose what we will do, what our character reflects, and how we will live our lives.
Change isn't easy, but it is certainly worth it. There have been several times I have done a personal inventory of my life and found I had some gaping holes that need to be filled. When I give advice to others about change in their lives, I usually tell them to start small so they won't fail in their resolutions, but I usually don't follow the same advice myself. The reason I don't is because I have found in my own life I need a big challenge in order to really change. When I gained a bunch of weight in my early-twenties I decided to get healthy. A few years later I was 60 pounds lighter and running marathons and triathlons. When I found I wasn't praying enough, I took up a daily rosary and reading of Scripture. I have kept that habit for almost 14 years and pray at least an hour a day now. So, what is next? Well, that is for me to discern...
But, I want to give suggestions for you as well.
100 Simple Ways To Improve Your Life:
- Pray more (or start praying if you aren't already)
- Say "I love you" to those you love
- We have too much stuff - go through your stuff and give some of it away.
- Visit your relatives
- Tip bigger
- Volunteer at a nursing home / soup kitchen / homeless shelter / animal shelter / Habitat for Humanity
- Smile more
- Say "hi" (or if in Texas "howdy") to strangers
- Be thankful for what you have, not envious of what you don't have
- Write someone a hand-written letter
- Volunteer for a task at work that nobody else wants
- Tithe 10%
- Forgive someone you hold a grudge against
- Do something on your "bucket list"
- Learn a new skill
- Say something encouraging to a loved-one that you should have said long ago
- Drive with kindness
- Volunteer with a youth group
- Save your money for something important and distant
- If you need help - get help
- Take a class in something you want to learn about
- Read the Bible every day
- Pray for your enemies
- Do the little things that matter
- Conquer a fear
- Exercise more
- Don't compromise your beliefs
- Communicate better - more in-person / telephone conversations with less texting / email
- Keep criticism to yourself
- Turn off your cell phone when you spend time with others
- Donate blood
- Offer to watch someone's children so they can go on dates
- Be eager to do something someone else wants to do, even if you don't
- Go on picnics
- Schedule quiet time
- Pay for the person behind you at a drive-through
- Buy extra items at the store and donate them
- Be patient with people who annoy you
- Dream big dreams
- Finish a project you started and put aside
- Work on what you are passionate about
- Be more hopeful and positive
- Stop making excuses
- Lose weight
- Send someone flowers
- Make a family member breakfast-in-bed
- Less TV/Facebook/Electronic stuff and more time on relationships
- Do something spontaneous every week
- Talk to your neighbors
- Share your talents / Teach someone something you are good at
- Be a better listener and talk less
- Say "I am sorry", "thank you", and "please" more
- Break a bad habit or addiction
- Donate books to the library
- Don't waste time with bad entertainment
- Mentor a troubled youth
- Host a block party
- Ask more open-ended questions of others
- Stop gossiping
- Go on a spiritual retreat
- Become an organ donor
- Don't argue electronically. If it is serious enough, then talk in-person
- Start a new hobby
- Play board games
- Get involved in a new organization at church
- Go for more walks with others
- Be persistent in doing the right thing
- Be yourself
- Do chores for an elderly person
- Go on a mission trip / service trip
- Eat healthier
- Keep a holy hour in Adoration
- Vote
- Give sincere compliments
- Brag less
- Recycle more
- Start a garden
- Write your political representatives
- Teach a child to read / ride a bike / swim
- Don't one-up others in conversations
- Invite others for a big feast
- Plant a tree
- Have a garage sale and donate the proceeds
- Carpool
- Hold doors open for others
- Pick up random litter
- Learn CPR
- Eat family meals more
- Forgive a debt that someone owes to you
- Introduce yourself to those you sit near in church
- Give big hugs
- Call just to say "hi"
- Bake cookies and give them away to others
- Make care packages for the military
- Buy fair-trade items when possible
- Read good books
- When you are wrong - take the blame
- Go to Confession monthly
- Look for Christ in others
- Love God with all you are

God bless whoever compiled this. This is so ordinary and great. Thanks.
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