Monday, January 31, 2011

How Do I Help Someone Get Involved at Church?

Q - I discovered today that a friend of mine is Catholic and has been going to Mass, but hasn't gotten involved in any way. We talked about it for a while and he said he's never been involved in a youth group or Church activities of any sort. When I suggested he try to come to events or other activities at church, he said he'd feel uncomfortable because he's not a "die-hard" and would feel out of place with people that were. He thanked me for the invitation but said he wouldn't take it up for now. My question is, what's a good way to ease someone like this into deeper involvement with the Church? He talked about how impressed he was with the youth and vibrancy of the church, but felt out of place in it. What can you do in a situation like this? With a Catholic who appreciates the church and attends, but has never been involved at a deeper level?

A -
Thanks for the question. This is a somewhat delicate situation and there are several guiding principles that can help you.

1 - Respect his freedom.
The gift of our free will is a beautiful thing. We should always respect this gift in ourselves and others. This means that we must allow the person to make their own decisions, even if they are not what we believe is best for them.

2 - Continue to evangelize him.
Everyone needs to grow closer to God and we are all called to help others do so. You can help others by continuing to gently invite, talk about your faith (without being pushy), and ask questions. You also need to be a good example for your friend. Finally, try to engage him in dialogue about faith issues. But, don't get overly aggressive about it.

3 - Let God do the heavy lifting.
You must remain patient with your friend. It is an exercise of our faith and hope to believe that God wants something even more than you do for him. So, let God work on his heart and hope that in time it will happen.

4 - Stay positive.
This is very important. You don't want to guilt your friend into getting more involved. Remember that he is still coming to Mass and this is the biggest of all steps.

I know this isn't the magic bullet you might have been hoping for, but it really is the best avenue to evangelize another - by being a good friend and a good Catholic.

I hope this helps.

EXCLUSIVE: Interview With An Anti-Catholic Aggie Turned Catholic Theologian

Taylor Marshall is an Aggie Catholic who has had an amazing journey from an Anti-Catholic Christian into the Catholic Church. Below is an interview he gave us. Please spread this post to others that might benefit from reading about his story.

Marcel LeJeune - "Taylor, you are both an Aggie and a Catholic, but you haven't always been an Aggie Catholic. Can you tell our readers about your story?

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Taylor Marshall - "I was not always drawn to the Catholic Church. I once resisted it with great force. As a college student at Texas A&M I believed that Pope John Paul II was the Antichrist, and boldly concluded that the Catholic Church was the Scarlet Whore of Babylon described by Saint John in the Apocalypse. My freshman and sophomore year I attended Grace Bible Church in College Station and was highly involved in the Evangelical group Campus Crusade for Christ. I went to China as a missionary during the summer after my freshman year.

I eventually became a Presbyterian through Reformed University Fellowship (RUF) at Texas A&M and then an Anglican/Episcopalian after I graduated. I graduated from Westminster Theological Seminary and then Nashotah House Theological Seminary. I was ordained an Anglican/Episcopalian priest in 2005.

I entered the Catholic Church because I believe with all my heart that the Church is the Body of Christ. As Saint Paul once wrote, "Love believes all things" (1 Cor 13:7), and I believe that the Church isn't merely an institution, but that she is the Mystical Body of Christ.

He is the head of the Body, the Church; he is the beginning, the first-born from the dead, that in everything He might be pre-eminent (Col 1:18).

Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I complete what is lacking in Christ's afflictions for the sake of His body, that is, the Church (Col 1:24).

That you may know how one ought to behave in the household of God, which is the Church of the living God, the pillar and bulwark of the truth (1 Tim 3:15).

The "Church question" is therefore unavoidable. The biblical description of "the Church" cannot be equated with a local congregation or voluntary club. It is something much more. The Church is not the "invisible Soul" of Christ, she is the visible "Body of Christ." There is no such thing as "an invisible Church," because the Church is defined as "the Body" which is a visible, empirical reality.

Secondly, since the Church is the Body of Christ, then she must also be one. Christ cannot be divided. We must belong to a visible and united reality.

Thirdly, I became convinced that Christ instituted this Church to be authoritative on earth ("whatever you bind on earth"). He appointed Apostles and He promised that the gates of Hell would not prevail against His Church. The only way Hell could prevail against the Church is for the Church to be in error. To deny the Truth is to deny Christ Who is the Truth. Consequently, the true Church must be free from error. As Saint Paul wrote, the Church is "the pillar and ground of truth." The doctrine that the Church is the pillar and ground of truth is in the Bible, which I hold to be infallible.

When I was an Anglican priest, I basically accepted the Catholic "package." I believed in the importance of the sacraments, the priesthood, Apostolic succession, tradition (to a certain extent), the infallibility of Scripture with respect to faith and morals, the communion of the saints, the centrality of Christ, the role of Mary in the incarnation of Christ, etc. However, I was not willing to grant the Roman claim that the fullness of the Church "subsists" in the Catholic Church under the pastoral oversight of the Pope.

I believed that the Church consisted visibly of all baptized and faithful believers. Consequently, the Church was "visible" in a certain sense. It was "one" in that all the baptized faithful consisted of one single "group." However, the problem lay in that this "group" was not free from error. In fact, as I experienced it as an Anglican priest, the Church was indeed plagued with heresy. There was no final authority for truth, except the Bible and then even the Bible might be subjected to many conflicting interpretations.

In Anglicanism alone, even among the "conservatives" there were Low Churchmen (more Protestant) and High Churchmen (more Catholic). These doctrinal parties never could unite together in order to fight the evil liberals who also carried a very different interpretation of Christianity. So my quest was one for authority. The ultimate "breaking point" for me was the realization that the Episcopal Church officially condoned abortion and supports groups like Planned Parenthood. I couldn't in good conscience persevere in fellowship with those who stood silent about the destruction of our society's most vulnerable members.

The argument for the authority of Rome is not sophisticated. It is simply that Christ instituted St Peter to bind and loose on earth (clearly "earth" denotes universal jurisdiction) and that this office is protected by the Holy Spirit so that the Church will never be led into error in the realm of faith (doctrine) and morals (ethics). The buck stops with Peter and with his successors in Rome, which includes the present Pope, His Holiness Benedict XVI. This charism for truth is not based on the moral superiority of the popes or their intellectual astuteness. It is based in the power of the Holy Spirit fulfilling the promise of Christ made to Peter and the Apostles."

Marcel LeJeune - "What do you have to say to our non-Catholic readers about the Catholic faith?

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Taylor Marshall - "To non-Catholic readers I would ask them to contemplate a blog post that I wrote entitled: “Catholic Challenge for Protestants”. It essentially goes like this: “As a Protestant, how do you know that the book of Esther (or 3 John) is inspired by God and belongs to the canon of Scripture” Sure, it’s printed in your Bible, but how do you know for sure?”

Now the Catholic Christian can answer this question in confidence because he believes that the Church is infallible and that she can thereby infallibly decree which books are inspired and which books are not. The Protestant cannot do this because he doesn’t believe in an infallible Church.

This little exercise reveals that Protestants cannot have infallible knowledge of the books of the Bible – hence their claim to the “Bible alone” is undercut by their claim that there is not an infallible Church on earth to make such a clarification. It’s a somewhat complicated argument, but once somebody sees that the list for the books of the Bible requires an infallible Church for ratification, Catholicism becomes the only clear option since it alone claims infallibility."

Marcel LeJeune - "If you had us read one post from your blog, which would it be?
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Taylor Marshall - "This might be cheating, but if I could get readers to click on anything on my blog, I would hope that they would listen to a podcast, especially the podcasts we’ve recorded on Saint Paul. College students are very busy, but they have iPods. Podcasts are therefore easier and more time efficient than blog posts. So please download the podcasts via iTunes or on the blog."

Marcel LeJeune - "Can you tell us a bit about your book? Where can our readers buy a copy (we already have a copy in our library)?

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Taylor Marshall - "My book The Crucified Rabbi describes how Christ and the Catholic Church fulfill over 300 Jewish prophecies about the Messiah and his Messianic kingdom on earth. It goes through the seven sacraments, the Pope, the Blessed Virgin, architecture, vestments, and even the afterlife—all by examining how Catholicism was the natural and proper fulfillment of the Jewish expectations found in the Old Testament. The book is available at Catholic bookstores and through Amazon.com.

I just wrote The Crucified Rabbi’s “sequel” entitled The Catholic Perspective on Paul and it's also available at amazon.com and Catholic bookstores. This book continues on the Jewish theme but shows how Saint Paul has been hijacked throughout history and how the authentic Saint Paul was thoroughly and robustly Catholic. The last chapter touches on Paul’s mission to Rome and its significance for Roman Catholicism."

Marcel LeJeune - "What plans do you have for the future?

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Taylor Marshall - "Currently, I’m working on a Ph.D. at the Catholic University of Dallas on philosophy. My interest lies in the natural law theory of Saint Thomas Aquinas.

The third part of the Catholic books series should be out by next year. It’s entitled The Eternal City: Rome and the Origins of Catholic Christianity. It continues the themes of Crucified Rabbi and Catholic Perspective on Paul but examines the theological significance of Rome for the Catholic Church. Of the three books in the trilogy, I’m most excited about this one.

I’m also working on an annotated translation of Saint Augustine’s famous book On Nature and Grace—hopefully also published sometime next year.

Most importantly, Joy is pregnant with our sixth baby - a boy. We're excited and trying to figure out a name. Currently, I'm going for Joseph or Raphael."

Marcel LeJeune - "What is your favorite Aggie tradition?"

Taylor Marshall - "My favorite tradition by far is singing the Aggie War Hymn. It’s probably blasphemous to say that it’s my “favorite hymn,” but I’m always filled with pride when I lock arms with fellow Ags and sing this “hymn.” I was recently at a wedding with tons of Ags and we locked up and sang the Aggie War Hymn at the reception. Nothing stirs my blood like singing, “Saw varsity's horns off!” and rocking back forth. It’s surreal even after so many years."

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Thanks to Taylor for taking the time to do this interview with us. Be sure to visit Taylor's blog.

This is the first in what will be a series of features on Aggie Catholics who are changing the culture.

Why Do We Sometimes Pray The Kyrie and Sometimes We Don't?

Q - Why do we sometimes pray the Confiteor and other times we pray the Kyrie during Mass? Thanks!


A - Thanks for the question. There might be a bit of confusion about what we ought to do during the Penitential Rite and the Kyrie.

Here is what the General Instruction of the Roman Missal (the document that lays out the order of Mass) says about this part of the Mass - I have underlined the part that might help you understand what is going on.
The Act of Penitence

51. Then the priest invites those present to take part in the Act of Penitence, which, after a brief pause for silence, the entire community carries out through a formula of general confession. The rite concludes with the priest's absolution, which, however, lacks the efficacy of the Sacrament of Penance.

On Sundays, especially in the Season of Easter, in place of the customary Act of Penitence, from time to time the blessing and sprinkling of water to recall Baptism may take place.

The Kyrie Eleison

52. After the Act of Penitence, the Kyrie is always begun, unless it has already been included as part of the Act of Penitence. Since it is a chant by which the faithful acclaim the Lord and implore his mercy, it is ordinarily done by all, that is, by the people and with the choir or cantor having a part in it.

As a rule, each acclamation is sung or said twice, though it may be repeated several times, by reason of the character of the various languages, as well as of the artistry of the music or of other circumstances. When the Kyrie is sung as a part of the Act of Penitence, a trope may precede each acclamation.
So, there are three options for the penitential rite, they are as follows and then I include the options for the Kyrie as well:
Option A (the Confiteor):
All: I confess to almighty God, and to you, my brothers and sisters, that I have sinned through my own fault, in my thoughts and in my words, in what I have done, and in what I have failed to do; and I ask blessed Mary, ever virgin, all the angels and saints, and you, my brothers and sisters, to pray for me to the Lord, our God.
Priest: May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins, and bring us to everlasting life.
All: Amen.

Option B:
Priest: Lord, we have sinned against you: Lord, have mercy.
All: Lord, have mercy.
Priest: Lord, show us your mercy and love.
All: And grant us your salvation.
Priest: May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins, and bring us to everlasting life.
All: Amen.

Option C (has 8 different sets of invocations, this is just one - also, they can make their own invocations, if suitable.):
[The following or other invocations may be spoken by the priest or another minister, but the priest always gives the final blessing.]
Minister: You raise the dead to life in the Spirit: Lord, have mercy.
All: Lord, have mercy.
Minister: You bring pardon and peace to the sinner: Christ, have mercy.
All: Christ, have mercy.
Minister: You bring light to those in darkness: Lord, have mercy.
All: Lord, have mercy.
Priest: May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins, and bring us to everlasting life.
All: Amen.

Kyrie:
Priest: Lord, have mercy. All: Lord, have mercy.
Priest: Christ, have mercy. All: Christ, have mercy.
Priest: Lord, have mercy. All: Lord, have mercy.
OR
Priest: Kyrie, eleison. All: Kyrie, eleison.
Priest: Christe, eleison. All: Christe, eleison.
Priest: Kyrie, eleison. All: Kyrie, eleison.
If Option C  of the Penitential Rite is used, it already incorporates the Kyrie into it and thus the Kyrie would not be prayed again. This is most likely what is happening and why you were confused.

Finally, we omit the Kyrie if the blessing and sprinkling of water is done in place of the penitential rite, as we do in Easter.

I hope this helps.

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Time-Lapse of the March for Life

The comment on Youtube says "The time it took for the March to pass our camera was 1 hour 31 minutes."

Fr. Barron - Arguments For God's Existence

This is another peek at the new Catholicism project that looks amazing.
I can't wait to get my hands on it.

Tip o' the hat to Matt Warner - another Aggie Catholic changing the culture.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Tim Hawkins on Different Churches

Yes, I literally laughed out loud. In fact, I cried. He kills it.

Friday, January 28, 2011

Can An Unconscious Adult Be Validly Baptized?

Q - Can a person, who is beyond the age of reason, be validly baptized?


A - Thanks for the question. This one stumped me in class last night, for the first time in a while. It is good to be stumped. It makes me do my homework. Here is what I found in the Code of Canon Law:
Can. 865 §1. For an adult to be baptized, the person must have manifested the intention to receive baptism, have been instructed sufficiently about the truths of the faith and Christian obligations, and have been tested in the Christian life through the catechumenate. The adult is also to be urged to have sorrow for personal sins.

§2. An adult in danger of death can be baptized if, having some knowledge of the principal truths of the faith, the person has manifested in any way at all the intention to receive baptism and promises to observe the commandments of the Christian religion.
Therefore, an adult who has shown an intention to be baptized, and not recanted that intent, can validly be baptized while unconscious.

A person who has not shown such intent, cannot be validly baptized, because a baptism cannot be validly received if a person beyond the age of reason does not consent to it.

Once again the beauty of free will is upheld as a great gift by the Church.

I hope this helps.

Is My Baptism Valid?

Q - I have a question about my Baptism. When I was baptized my parents didn't have the understanding of the faith that they have now and neither of my Godparents are Catholic. My parents want to know if anything should be done. What does this mean for me? Thanks for your time. I enjoyed the class tonight like always!


A - Thanks for the question. The question comes down to - is your baptism valid or not? If it is not, then you would need to be baptized. If it is, then nothing would need to be done.

With the information you gave, your baptism is valid. Here is what is required to have a valid baptism:
  1. Proper Matter
    • This is "true and natural water"
  2. Proper Form
    • The minister of the Sacrament must immersein water or pour / sprinkle water upon the candidate, while saying, “I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.”
  3. Proper Intention
    • The minister of the Sacrament must intend to baptize as the Church intends.
Even a non-Christian can validly baptize as long as the criteria above are met. For the intention, the person must intend to baptize as the Church intends, even if they don't believe in the baptism or Christ.

While a deep understanding of the faith is certainly a goal, it is not a necessity for a valid baptism. Furthermore, while the Church asks that there be a Godparent who is Catholic, it isn't necessary for a valid baptism either.
"Go, therefore, 12 and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the holy Spirit," - Matthew 28:19
I hope this helps.

New Confession App for iPhone

This sounds pretty cool, and it comes with a Nihil Obstat and an Imprimatur (see here for a quick explanation of what those are).
Confession: A Roman Catholic App
Designed to be used in the confessional, this app is the perfect aid for every penitent. With a personalized examination of conscience for each user, password protected profiles, and a step-by-step guide to the sacrament, this app invites Catholics to prayerfully prepare for and participate in the Rite of Penance. Individuals who have been away from the sacrament for some time will find Confession: A Roman Catholic App to be a useful and inviting tool.

The text of this app was developed in collaboration with Rev. Thomas G. Weinandy, OFM, Executive Director of the Secretariat for Doctrine and Pastoral Practices of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, and Rev. Dan Scheidt, pastor of Queen of Peace Catholic Church in Mishawaka, IN. The app received an imprimatur from Bishop Kevin C. Rhodes of the Diocese of Fort Wayne – South Bend. It is the first known imprimatur to be given for an iPhone/iPad app.

- Custom examination of Conscience based upon age, sex, and vocation (single, married, priest, or religious)
- Multiple user support with password protected accounts
- Ability to add sins not listed in standard examination of conscience
- Confession walkthrough including time of last confession in days, weeks, months, and years
- Choose from 7 different acts of contrition
- Custom interface for iPad
- Full retina display support

Nihil Obstat: Reverend Monsignor Michael Heintz, PhD
Censor Liborum

Imprimatur: + Kevin C. Rhoades
Bishop of Fort Wayne-South Bend

December 17, 2010
Taylor Marshall has 10 other cool Catholic iPhone apps.

Ask A Catholic A Question

A very complimentary article in the student paper at Texas A&M, The Battalion, about our evangelization program - Ask A Catholic A Question. The author has a few quotes that are slightly off, but he did a nice job.
Discussing the divine
Ask a Catholic ministry educates peers about faith
By Joe Terrell

In what has become a familiar sight on campus, a man stands in the middle of Academic Plaza, screaming condemnation down on those who walk past. One hand forms an accusing finger, viciously jabbing in the direction of the onlookers clutched in his other hand is a Bible.

"I don't know the hearts of those doing it, but Christianity is about love," said Steve Hanson, senior computer engineering major. "And I don't think [that type of evangelizing] sends that message well."

Marcel LeJeune, class of 1995, thinks he has found the proper approach to on-campus evangelizing.

LeJeune graduated from Texas A&M in 1995 with a degree in history before earning a master's degree in pastoral theology at Ave Maria University and serving as director of campus Catholic ministries at Texas Tech from 2002-2006. While at Tech, LeJeune taught a class on evangelizing, which formed the genesis of the Ask a Catholic ministry.

"During the class I would challenge [students] with weekly assignments. The first week their assignment was to tell someone they didn't know they were Catholic. As the semester progressed, the challenges got more difficult," he said. "One week we decided to write the words ‘Ask a Catholic' on a board and we stood in the busiest part of campus. And that's how the ministry was born."

LeJeune is the assistant director of campus ministries at St. Mary's Catholic Center, which is the largest campus ministry in the country. More than 5,000 students attend St. Mary's Sunday services and 40 people work on staff. There are more than 80 student organizations that operate outward from St. Mary's.

When LeJeune took his position in 2006, he brought his unique ministry idea, even going so far to write a manual, which can be viewed online.

"Beginning every semester, we have a training course here at St. Mary's, which emphasizes basic do's and don'ts, interpersonal communication, basic argument formation and, most importantly, we teach them how to teach," he said.

The training sessions clock in at just under an hour and a half, which might seem short to some, but to LeJeune, the scant time frame is a necessity.

"You're only going to learn so much in a class setting, especially when you're learning about communication," he said. "The only way to know how to do it is to just go out there on campus and start talking to people."

Newer members are paired with veteran students in groups of three and four who then, donning bright lime green shirts and signs, head out to the most heavily trafficked areas on campus, including Academic Plaza, Sbisa, Blocker and Koldus.

"It's really born out of respect for people's free will," LeJeune said. "We don't think yelling is an effective ministry. We want to expose our faith, not impose."

Each three to four person group has a designated leader, whose job is to coordinate the schedules and find times for everyone to meet. The groups are typically deployed for an hour at a time, but it is not uncommon for a group to be out on campus for a longer period of time. The members of the Ask a Catholic ministry encounter a wide spectrum of questions from curious students.

"There's a lot of misconceptions about the Catholic Church and we want to clear that up," LeJeune said. "We get basic questions like ‘How can you prove God exists?' and then we get a lot on Catholic particulars about Mary, purgatory and the pope."

But LeJuene said he emphasizes that one of the goals of Ask a Catholic is never to argue.

"We get some people who just want to pick a religious debate," LeJeune said. "We want to build relationships and have respectful relationships. The person is more important than the question."

Students involved are told to be aware of their own limitations. At times, students might encounter a question that they do not know how to answer.

"I think an important part of the conversation dynamics is to know when it's OK to say, ‘I don't know,'" LeJeune said. "This way it's a learning experience for both parties involved."

Since Ask a Catholic's appearance on A&M's campus, three other campuses have adopted the ministry, using the guide that LeJeune wrote himself. The three other branches are at the University of Louisiana at Lafayette, Charlottesville and the University of Kansas.

"I really think we've changed the dynamic of evangelism on campus," LeJeune said, "Universities are a place of ideas and Christianity is a religion of ideas. We are bringing it back to its roots with relevant discussion."
The program continues to expand and I got another request this week, from a school in Colorado, to help them start the program there.

The manual and more information on Ask A Catholic A Question can be found here.

St. Thomas Aquinas

Today is the feast of one of our greatest Saints, and one of the most intelligent men to live - St. Thomas Aquinas.
Here are a few facts about St. Thomas Aquinas:
  • Patron of students, universities, Catholic schools, booksellers, Philosphers, publishers, and more.
  • He is one of the 33 Doctors of the Church
  • Son of a Count
  • Studied under St. Albert the Great
  • Greatest work is the Summa Theologica, which is still one of the most influential of all theological works. It systematized theology and brought together doctrine and Greek philosophy into one rational work. It was never finished.
  • Before he died, he had a mystical encounter with Christ that caused him to say, "all that I have written seems like straw to me."
  • Also Known as:
    • Angelic Doctor
    • The Dumb Ox
    • The Universal Teacher
One of his most beautiful prayers (English version):
Tantum Ergo Sacramentum
Down in adoration falling,
Lo! The Sacred Host we hail.
Lo! o'er ancient forms departing,
Newer rites of Grace prevail:
Faith for all defects supplying,
Where the feeble senses fail.

To The Everlasting Father
And The Son Who reigns on high,
With The Spirit blessed proceeding
Forth, from Each eternally,
Be salvation, honor, blessing,
Might and endless majesty. Amen.

Learn more in this video:

St. Thomas Aquinas pray for us!

What is Wrong With Porn?

Q - What is wrong with porn?  Isn't it just some harmless fun?


A - Thanks for the questions.  I hope I can get into the heart of the matter.  But, before we get to the negatives, let us affirm the positives about our sexuality.


1 - Catholics see the body as a reflection of the Divine. We are created in the image and likeness of God. The body is not just an instrument to be used for pleasure, but rather, it is a constitutive part of our being. Therefore, sex is not just for pleasure, but it helps us discover our ultimate purpose - union with God. Sex can be seen as a foretaste of the divine relationship we all wish to have in heaven - sex is worship of God - when done in the proper context and for the right reasons. We are not souls trapped inside a shell. We are humans with both a body and a soul.


2 - The human purpose of sex is twofold - babies and bonding. Sex is meant to be an act between two committed (i.e., married) people -a man and a woman. To try and make it something else is to re-define it as something less than what it was meant to be, and therefore it becomes an attack on the dignity of those involved in it. Sex isn't good - sex is so much more - sex is sacred. Sex is meant for higher purposes than just pleasure. Sex that is just for pleasure pales in comparison to true married love. God created sex as something wonderful - porn is a distortion of that beauty.


If you have sex with someone you are not married to you are saying, with your body, "I give myself to you, everything. Fully." But, what you are really saying is a lie with your body, because you are ultimately saying "I give myself to you, but I don’t commit to you. It is a temporary gift that I will give and take back." Sex shouldn't be about degrading or using another person, it should be about true love. Which leads to...

3 - Sex is about real love. Real love is choosing what is best for the other, regardless of the cost to myself. Think about it - what is more powerful than having sex? The greatest power we have is to create and the greatest of all created things is a human being. When a child is created in a mother's womb, it is because two people have the opportunity to procreate. That is, to create with God. Sex is the most powerful thing humans can participate in.

Any kind of sexual activity outside of the bonds of marriage cannot be a loving act. Why? Because love wouldn't take a chance with someone phyiscally, emotionally, spiritually, etc. and this is just what sex outside of marriage does, it risks another person's well-being.

The Negatives Of Porn:
Statistics that can help bring this problem home:
  • Adults admitting to Internet sexual addiction: 10%
  • More than 70% of men from 18 to 34 visit a pornographic site in a typical month
  • 57% of pastors say that addiction to pornography is the most sexually damaging issue to their congregation
  • The Internet was a significant factor in 2 out of 3 divorces
*So, what makes porn so bad? 


*It makes us see other humans as less than human both in the making of porn and in the using of it. In our mind's eye we treat those involved in porn as objects for our pleasure, not as other humans whom we truly want what is best.  It is the opposite of love. 

Like most things, sex can be used for good and evil. When put in a pornographic state, it is intrinsically evil. It separates love and sex. Once this happens, sex becomes about the self, not the other. In and of itself, it is an exercise of the ego - it is all about ME.

*Porn is addictive - it is more addictive than cocaine and heroine. When porn is used there are powerful chemicals that the body sends directly into the pleasure center of the brain. These chemicals are what cocaine and heroine were made to mimic, only they aren't the real thing. Also, once these chemicals are released while viewing porn, the images are chemically 'burned' into the brain.


*Porn destroys relationships. The fastest growing reason for divorce is infidelity by way of porn. The spouse is made to feel inferior to the images that the other spouse is using. Both partners suffer from self-esteem issues and their view of one another is distorted. The fantasy can never be lived up to.


*Porn desensitizes the user with repeated use. This can lead to a numbing of the conscience and much deeper, sometimes criminal, problems.


*Sex-based addictions are the hardest to kick. Studies show that most addicts have several addictions and therapists have learned that if the sex addiction isn't treated first and successfully, then treatments for other addictions don't usually work.


Porn isn't just a private issue. It is exploitation of others in every way possible.  It is a social problem (see the problems in marriages), it is a religious problem (see the problems in churches), it is a mental problem (addictive), it is a family problem, etc.

Porn is evil.


With all of this in mind, I will post something I have posted several other times - the text of a brochure I helped develop for the Diocese of Austin.
19 Strategies for Helping Yourself Strive for Purity
  1. Get rid of all pornography you own. Destroy movies, magazines and dump all electronic images.
  2. Stay off of the computer if it is a temptation. If you have to get on a computer, then do so when other people are around. DO NOT get on the computer for any reason, if you are alone and it is a temptation.
  3. Pray more. You must rely on God to deliver you from the problem. You will not be able to stop by using your own power.
  4. Frequent the Sacraments and Daily Mass. The grace you need to conquer the temptations will be found here.
  5. Find an accountability partner. Check in with each other frequently.
  6. Fast. It helps you to develop self control. You have had a problem with self control sexually, but most men have self control issues in other areas as well.
  7. Avoid the occasion of sin. Think about when, where and how you are tempted. Then think about strategies to avoid these circumstances.
  8. Use holy images. Your mind has been filled with unholy images; fill it with the image of Christ, Mary, and saints.
  9. Ask Mary to intercede. It may sound funny, but it is hard to be tempted when asking the Immaculate Mother of God to help you.
  10. Read Scripture daily. Let God’s Word penetrate deeply into your life.
  11. Go to confession with the same priest frequently.
  12. Do not suppress the thoughts of temptation. Redeem them. Offer them to Christ through his cross.
  13. If you feel that despite your best efforts, you are unable to stop viewing pornography, seek help from a mental health professional who specializes in addiction. He or she will be able to help you determine whether or not the behavior is an addiction, and will help you get the tools you need to conquer it. (See the back of this brochure for recommendations about where to call for help).
  14. If you are married and your spouse does not know about your problem, you need to talk about it. The problem must be admitted to before it can stop.
  15. Use blocking software to limit access on your computer. Also, software at xxxchurch.com can send an accountability report to your accountability partner.
  16. Do not drink or use drugs while trying to overcome the temptation. Drinking or using drugs can lower inhibitions, which make us more likely to act impulsively.
  17. Don’t beat yourself up after a setback. The devil wants you to give up. Seek forgiveness and start again, no matter how humbling or hard it may be. God always forgives and loves.
  18. 18. Meet with a priest or spiritual director to formulate goals and learn techniques for growing closer to Christ and becoming the person God calls you to be.
  19. Exercise use of the Virtues - prudence, fortitude, temperance, modesty, purity, and self-control.
Prayer for Chastity
by St. Thomas Aquinas
Dearest Jesus! I know well that every perfect gift, and above all others that of chastity, depends upon the most powerful assistance of your providence, and that without you a creature can do nothing. Therefore, I pray that you defend, with your grace, the gift of chastity and purity in my soul as well as in my body. And if I have ever received through my senses any impression that could stain my chastity and purity, I ask you, who are the supreme Lord of all my powers, to take it from me, so that I may with a clean heart advance in your love and service, offering myself chaste all the days of my life on the most pure altar of your divinity. Amen.


Scripture When Facing Temptation
“For you have been purchased at a price. Therefore glorify God in your body.” I Corinthians 6:20
“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” Philippians. 4:13
“Nothing will be impossible with God.” Luke 1:37
“Every athlete exercises discipline in every way … to win an imperishable crown.” 1 Corinthians 9:25
“Create a clean heart in me O God.” Psalm 51:12
“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” 2 Corinthians 12:9
“Think of what is above, not of what is on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.” Colossians 3:2-3
“Go not after your lusts, but keep your desires in check.” Sirach 18:30
“I said: ‘I will confess my offenses to the Lord.’ And you, Lord, have forgiven the guilt of my sin.” Psalm 32:5
“You were once in darkness, but now you you are light in the Lord. Live as children of the light, for light produces every kind of goodness and righteousness and truth. Try to learn what is pleasing to the Lord. Take no part in the fruitless works of darkness.” Ephesians 5:8-11
“Let us cast off the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light.” Romans 13:12


Counseling
The Diocese of Austin Office of Catholic Family Counseling and Family Life offers counseling services onsite and also maintains a referral list of Catholic friendly counselors in various areas throughout the diocese. For more information about our services, or to schedule an appointment, please call (512) 726-0405.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Another Pro-life American Idol Story

A great story of real love (choosing what is best for the other, despite the cost to myself).
People keep sending me these. Keep them coming.

Does the Catholic Church Teach the Doctrine of Predestination?

Q - I was having a discussion about free will and the concept of predestination with a Catholic friend. Now, I am thoroughly confused as to if and how the concept of predestination fits into our faith. The idea put forth by my friend was that through efficacious grace alone can we accept God. Also, this grace is offered only to some and that it is not within us to reject it. I do not see how free will fits with this idea. Will you straighten me out – should I believe in predestination as a Catholic?


A - Thanks for the question.  This is a common question that many Catholics wrestle with.  Predestination can be understood in many different ways and considering how you define it will answer the question for us.  The simple answer is - yes, the Catholic Church teaches predestination as part of the doctrine of the Church. But, what exactly does that mean?

A definition of predestination can be taken from the Catechism:
To God, all moments of time are present in their immediacy. When therefore he establishes his eternal plan of "predestination", he includes in it each person's free response to his grace: "In this city, in fact, both Herod and Pontius Pilate, with the Gentiles and the peoples of Israel, gathered together against your holy servant Jesus, whom you anointed, to do whatever your hand and your plan had predestined to take place." For the sake of accomplishing his plan of salvation, God permitted the acts that flowed from their blindness. - CCC, 600
Notice how predestination is defined. God knows all who will accept His gift of saving grace.  So, for all time, the knowledge of God being unlimited, God has known whom would say "yes" to His grace.  This is the plan of salvation offered to us from the Father, through Jesus, by the power of the Holy Spirit.  The confusion about this doctrine arises when theologians attempt to explain how the mystery of free will, grace, and the fore-knowledge of God all fit together.  There are several options for Catholics to choose from and we are free to do so.  But, there are also some positions the Church rejects.

The first position the Church rejects is one called Pelagianism.  This originated from a man called Pelagius who taught we choose free will apart from God's grace.  In other words, we don't need God's assistance to save ourselves, it is all an act of our own will.  This has always been rejected by the Church.  We certainly can't choose to save ourselves by any act of the will alone.

The second position the Church rejects is sometimes called double predestination.  This is the position of some who follow the Calvinist/Reformed tradition.  This is the teaching that God actively chooses some to go to heaven and damns others to hell.  This would mean we have no free will to choose salvation at all, but all the work is from God alone and we cannot change our destiny, but it is predetermined no matter what.  It also means God is the cause damnation, which the Church has always rejected.

So, where does that leave us?  It leaves us with several options.

The first option is built from both St. Augustine and then St. Thomas Aquinas.  Others come from Molina and other scholars.  I won't go into the details here, but let me sum up the positions by saying that the Thomists emphasize grace and the Molinists emphasize free will.  But, neither camp rejects the other side they do not emphasize.

Here are the things the Catholic Church teaches about predestination and the doctrines surrounding it:

  • God is the source of all good.  God does not create evil (which isn't really a "thing", but rather an absence of a good).  God cannot do an evil act.
  • God allows humans to choose to do good or evil.  We have free will.  It is possible to reject God's grace.
  • God's knowledge is infinite.  There is nothing He does not know.
  • God wants (wills) that all be saved.
  • God always acts first.  His grace comes and then we respond.
  • Even after saving grace is received, we can reject it later.

Within the framework of this discussion about predestination, a Catholic has the freedom to formulate how it all works out.  Thus the different opinions from Thomists, Molinists, etc.

I hope this helps.

Here are some other posts that relate to this subject that might be of use:
-Salvation and Catholics
-"Faith Alone"
-Am I Saved?

Movin' On Up The List Of Most Popular Catholic Blogs

Eric Sammons has once again listed the most popular Catholic blogs, according to Google Reader Subscribers. We came in at #34!

The last time that Eric rated the blogs (June 2010), we barely cracked the top 50. So, we are movin' on up!

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Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Abby Johnson To Speak On The Campus of A&M

Abby Johnson, the former director of the Planned Parenthood clinic in Bryan, TX and the former Planned Parenthood employee of the year, will speak about her journey into the pro-life movement next month. This is part of St. Mary's Distinguished Speaker Series.

This is an event you will not want to miss. Her story has become a best-selling book  entitled - Unplanned: The Dramatic True Story of a Former Planned Parenthood Leader's Eye-Opening Journey across the Life Line.

In addition, the sisters of the Daughters of St. Paul will once again host their annual vocations team meeting here at St. Mary's Catholic Center the week of this event. But, in addition they are bringing their Postulants with them and the sisters will put on a short concert before Abby talks.

Did I mention it is FREE. So, how can you say "no"?

Friday, February 25 - 7pm - Rudder Auditorium. You can RSVP on Facebook here.

Is Getting A Tattoo Wrong?

Q - Simple question, is getting a tattoo wrong?


A - Thanks for the question. I know that in today's society, tattoos are more popular than ever and many people have questions about this.  I hope that I can help sort it out.

There is nothing intrinsically wrong with a tattoo. This means, that in and of itself, a tattoo is not a moral evil.

Now, if there is significant damage to the bodily integrity, then getting tattoo could be sinful. For instance, a tattoo that causes offense to others, because of the image causes scandal would be wrong or a minor who gets one without permission from parents.

As Christians, we should also consider why you would ever need a tattoo. The Church teaches us about the goodness of our bodies. Our bodies were created to image God and he believes they are "good". So, why would they need to be decorated? Furthermore, they are to be the home of the Holy Spirit, which is why St. Paul wrote:
"Do you not know that your body is a temple 8 of the holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own?" - 1 Cor 6:19
Some questions that might guide a person thinking about getting a tattoo:
  • What is the intent behind the desire for a tattoo? 
  • Is the purpose of doing so to spite someone?
  • Will my bodily integrity remain intact or will this mutilate my body?
  • Do you have a bad self-image or are trying to hide a feature we don't like?
  • Is it done to please someone else
  • Is it a part of a tribal ritual? 
  • Is your body being treated as a temple of the Holy Spirit?
  • How will this affect others? 
  • How will my parents, friends, family, employers, etc. react? 
  • Is this good use of my money?
  • What will the tattoo contain? Would it be offensive to others?
  • Is it a good message within the tattoo?
Furthermore, there are some kinds of modern body decoration/piercings that lead to mutilating the body - these would be sinful to participate in, because the bod's integrity is at stake.

So, while it is not intrinsically wrong to get a tattoo, there are circumstances that might make it immoral. If you don't get a tattoo, you need not even ask the questions above.

I hope this helps.

For more on related topics:
**The Catholic Church and Plastic Surgery

Dads - Who is Watching You?

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Fast "Food" or Fast Food

Yikes, three things you may not want to know about. But, you ought to anyway.

1 - The ingredients to Taco Bell's "beef" (aka - "taco meat filling"):
Beef, water, isolated oat product, salt, chili pepper, onion powder, tomato powder, oats (wheat), soy lecithin, sugar, spices, maltodextrin (a polysaccharide that is absorbed as glucose), soybean oil (anti-dusting agent), garlic powder, autolyzed yeast extract, citric acid, caramel color, cocoa powder, silicon dioxide (anti-caking agent), natural flavors, yeast, modified corn starch, natural smoke flavor, salt, sodium phosphate, less than 2% of beef broth, potassium phosphate, and potassium lactate.
It looks gruesome but passable... until you learn that, according to the Alabama law firm suing Taco Bell—only 36% of that is beef. Thirty-six percent. The other 64% is mostly tasteless fibers—which are there to increase volume while keeping the cost down—additives and some flavoring and coloring. Everything is processed into a mass that actually looks like beef, and packed into big containers labeled as "taco meat filling." These containers get shipped to Taco Bell's outlets and cooked into something that, again, looks like beef, is called beef and is advertised as beef.
2 - A six-month time lapse video of what happened to a Happy Meal from McDonalds. It isn't what I expected and yet I am more frightened by what didn't happen:

There isn't much difference in a 4-year old Happy Meal either...

3 - Processed Chicken nuggets and patties start from a pink goo that is hard to describe, but you can see a pic of it here. This is a partial description:
Basically, the entire chicken is smashed and pressed through a sieve—bones, eyes, guts, and all. it comes out looking like this.

There’s more: because it’s crawling with bacteria, it will be washed with ammonia, soaked in it, actually. Then, because it tastes gross, it will be reflavored artificially. Then, because it is weirdly pink, it will be dyed with artificial color.
***One advantage to what you now know - it makes it easier to eat healthy.***

Disclaimer: This picture above is a parody. Taco Bell logo is a registered trademark. Taco Bell does not sponsor or endorse, and is not affiliated with, this website.

What Do You Regret?

Don't let the things you regret define you.

Dysfunctional Love Songs

Chris Stefanick has a great article on dysfunctional love songs:
The lessons packed in the love songs that are getting the most radio play today all seem to have a similar theme: if it isn’t dysfunctional, it isn’t love.

Take the song “Grenade” for instance, wherein Bruno Mars sings a litany of pains he’d endure for his beloved, ranging from catching a grenade, to throwing his hand on a blade, to taking a bullet through his brain. His beloved is evil, it seems. According to the song she’d “smile in (his) face then rip the brakes out of (his) car.”

Her response to his “loving” rant is total indifference. He goes so far as to lament that if his body was on fire she’d watch him burn in flames. Yet, despite all this, at the end of the song he still sings, “I would die for you baby, but you won’t do the same.”

It seems that Bruno has so effectively broken the stereotype of the emotionless, standoffish male that he has become the psychotically needy girlfriend. Good boy, Bruno. Contemporary, feminized society has trained you well in the ways of “manhood.” The lesson of this song is clear: If it isn’t codependence it isn’t real love.

In a recent drive to work I turned the radio dial in a vain attempt to avoid “Grenade” only to find it on three other stations. Moving on…

In one of the most popular songs of 2010, “Breakeven,” singer Danny O’Donoghue laments after a hard breakup, “I’m still alive but I’m barely breathin.’” Everyone who has had their heart broken can relate with those words. But he goes on to sing, “What am I supposed to do when the best part of me was always you?” Romantic words? Yes. Emotionally healthy words? No.

No offense Danny, but if the best part of you was her I can see why she dumped you. While a couple is called to unity, individuals still need to maintain autonomy for a relationship to be stable and lasting. If people lose themselves in one another, soon there is no self to give to the other. The lesson of “Breakeven”: If it isn’t enmeshment it isn’t love.
Continue reading.

New Report on Abortion You Must See

On the heals of the NY City statistics that 41% of pregnancies end in abortion, this is another sad statistic and it comes from the research arm of Planned Parenthood - 35% of women will have an abortion by the time they reach the age of 45. Some other sobering stats:

  • 93 percent of all abortions occur for “social reasons”
  • black women are more than four times more likely than non-Hispanic white women to have an abortion.
  • Catholic women account for more than 31 percent of all abortions performed in the United States
  • About 20 percent of women having an abortion report using Medicaid to pay for abortions
  • Worldwide, there are 42 million abortions are performed each year

More from CNS:
(CNSNews.com) - Statistics compiled over the past decade show that the number of abortions in the United States has dropped precipitously since the early 1980s, but the procedure still remains a prevalent form of birth control in this country and around the world.

According to the U.S .Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta, there were 846,181 abortions in the U.S. in 2006, the latest year for which government records are available.

The pro-abortion rights Alan Guttmacher Institute reports that there have been nearly 50 million abortions performed since 1973, the year the Supreme Court issued the Roe v. Wade decision ushering in legal abortion nationwide.

In 2008, Guttmacher says, there were 1.2 million "legally terminated pregnancies" in the United States, based on reports complied from state and local health agencies -- down from 1.3 million the year previous.

According to Guttmacher, 35 percent of all U.S. women will have had an abortion by age 45.

Guttmacher also reports that 93 percent of all abortions occur for “social reasons” such as a mother’s decision that the child is unwanted or “inconvenient.”

Both Guttmacher and CDC say that black women are more than four times more likely than non-Hispanic white women to have an abortion, and Hispanic women are 2.7 times as likely.

BlackGenocide.com, a pro-life campaign to stop abortion in the African American community, estimates that 13 million abortions have been performed on African American women since 1973. They also estimate that, on average, 1,876 black pregnancies are terminated in the U.S. each day.

Surprisingly, Guttmacher estimates that Catholic women account for more than 31 percent of all abortions performed in the United States while 18 percent of all abortions are performed on women who identify themselves as born-again Christians or evangelicals. Both religious groups preach against terminating pregnancies.

Continue Reading.

Fr. Barron on Abortion in New York

Monday, January 24, 2011

Marry Me

A great song, although I can't get over how the guitarist resembles Howie Mandel a bit.


Lyrics:
Forever can never be long enough for me
Feel like I've had long enough with you
Forget the world now, we won't let them see
But there's one thing left to do

Now that the weight has lifted
Love has surely shifted my way

Marry me today and every day
Marry me if I ever get the nerve to say hello in this cafe
Say you will, say you will

Together can never be close enough for me
Feel like I am close enough to you
You wear white and I'll wear out the words I love you
And you're beautiful

Now that the wait is over
And love and has finally shown her my way

Marry me today and every day
Marry me if I ever get the nerve to say hello in this cafe
Say you will, say you will

Promise me you'll always be happy by my side
I promise to sing to you when all the music dies

And marry me today and everyday
Marry me if I ever get the nerve to say hello in this cafe
Say you will, say you will marry me

Is This Red Bull Commercial Anti-Catholic?

Tell me what you think...


Red Bull Anti-Catholic?

Benedict XVI Speaks on Social Media and the Internet

The Prophecy of John Lennon is Fulfilled

On the way to work this morning, I heard the Beatles song, Imagine, written by John Lennon. Many consider it his greatest work. While I am a Beatles fan, I do not like this song, because the lyrics remind me that Lennon was somewhat of a prophet wrapped up into a world-view that glorified selfish pleasures and a contradictory understanding of reality.

I thought I might give a response to the song.
Imagine there's no heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today
How to make this a reality? By not believing in anything above our own sensory knowledge. This is an atheistic nihilistic understanding of life - there is no point to it all. I don't want to imagine any sort of world as Lennon sees it. Because all I end up seeing is selfishness, might-makes-right totalitarian systems, and vice. We can see where "living for today" gets us - just look at the average 16 year-old. Is that what Lennon wants the rest of the world to look like?
Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion, too
We have just such an experiment happening in Western Civilization right now, especially in the European Union. The EU is a God-less experiment that is resulting in their society dying a fast death. Why? Because they aren't even replacing their population and can't agree on what society is for.

Then we have China, North Korea and the other Communist countries that do not allow God, unless He is safe and off to the sides. We see what Mao, Stalin, Lenin, Pol Pot and the other atheistic communists have done.

I imagine hell-on-earth after I hear those lines.
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace

You, you may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you will join us
And the world will be as one
Nice sentiment, but the way he foresees it happening just doesn't work. History proves it.
Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man

Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world
Communism once again. Here is what the Catechism says about Communism:
2425 "The Church has rejected the totalitarian and atheistic ideologies associated in modem times with "communism" or "socialism.""
We must reject it because the state must be the highest power because God is a threat to their power. Of course, it is easy for a multi-millionaire like Lennon to have such sanguine feelings about the world when he lived in the lap of luxury. But the fact remains, Communism doesn't work.
You, you may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you will join us
And the world will live as one
I wouldn't call him a dreamer. I would call him naive and dangerous. I also think he contradicts himself. If we are all "living for today", then why worry about the brotherhood of man, peace, greed, or hunger?

To sum it up - I imagine selfish vice-filled nihilistic deadly Communism when I think of this song.

I only imagine a bunch of radical atheists rejoicing in this song and therefore naming it one of the greatest songs of all-time.

A Mother Gives Back

This is a wonderful new service that is being offered locally to parents of premature babies. It is called Preemie Prints and here is a snip from their website:
Welcome to Preemie Prints, a charitable venture, based in the Brazos Valley, offering support, complimentary high-quality photography, and gift bags to moms with premature babies.
I have been called to share my gifts of compassion, understanding, courage, and photography with families who have a child born early or a child who must be a NICU (Neo Natal Intensive Care Unit). Through Preemie Prints, I am offering complimentary photo sessions to these deserving families, a complete disk of all edited photos, a DVD slideshow, and a small booklet of prints. These pictures will help families and mothers through their difficult journey with a premature baby. In addition, pictures can aid NICU moms who have post partum depression (PPD) and post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). NICU moms are at a significantly higher risk of contracting both. Also, if a photography session is not possible or of interest, we will also take your NICU/HOME pictures taken throughout your journey and create a beautiful DVD slideshow for you.
Share with parents who might be interested.

What Starts at St. Mary's Catholic Center is Changing our Modern Culture

St. Mary's Catholic Center is changing lives and changing the culture.

Proof #140 Days for Life was started here by Aggie Catholics. Below is video of David Bereit and Abby Johnson at the West Coast Walk for Life. David is a former parishioner and Abby is going through RCIA here.


Proof #2 - Over 130 Aggie Catholic Vocations to the priesthood and religious life + over 40 in formation. We have averaged over 8 young men and women entering formation over the last dozen years or so.

Proof #3 - Sr. Lynn D'Souza invented the low-gluten host that allows Catholics who have celiac disease to receive the Eucharist in the form of the bread. Her story was featured on PBS.

Proof #4 - The number of lay Aggie Catholics working in the Church or in businesses that support the church. Just a few examples:
These 4 proofs are just the tip of the iceberg.

Please pray for our Aggies.
Please pray for the continued success of St. Mary's Catholic Center.
Please consider support us financially, if you are able.

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Documentary on The Nashville Dominicans

Salt and Light TV has a documentary on the Nashville Dominicans (The Dominican Sisters of St. Cecilia) that looks phenomenal. Here is a promo for the documentary:

Friday, January 21, 2011

No Regrets

To choose life means living with no regrets. This mother understands the sacrifice is worth her daughter's life.

MTV's Skins May Violate Child Porn Laws!

The show Skins, on MTV, has already created quite a dust-up. Here is a timeline of what has happened.

  1. The Parents Television Council (PTC) called it "the most dangerous program that has ever been foisted on your children!"
  2. I agreed and called for prayers and action to stop the soft-core porn that the show was pushing.
  3. The NY Times found out that the parent company of MTV, Viacom, asked the execs to tone down the show, for fears they were violating child porn laws!
  4. The PTC calls for a boycott of Taco Bell, one of the advertisers on the show.
  5. Taco Bell pulls their advertising from the show.
  6. The PTC is now calling for a federal investigation.

We must continue to get the word out about this show. We must fight for our children (even if they don't watch this filth, many of their peers will). We must pray and take action for the sake of our world.

Facts About College in America - An Infographic

Continuing with the infographics we have been posting this week:

College in America
Via: OnlineSchools.org

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Priest from US Civil War declared Venerable by Pope

Fr. Barron on Why MLK Still Matters

News

***I wrote that MTV's new show, Skins, was the worst that MTV has ever aired.
Now, the proof - MTV is worried their show might violate child porn laws. From the article:
It is unclear when MTV first realized that the show may be vulnerable to child pornography charges. On Tuesday, a flurry of meetings took place at the network’s headquarters in New York, according to an executive who attended some of the meetings and spoke only on the condition of anonymity. In one of the meetings, the executives wondered aloud who could possibly face criminal prosecution and jail time if the episodes were broadcast without changes.
***The Alabama Governor said that only Christians are his "brothers and sisters" and that non-believers are not. For a Catholic response, read Msgr. Pope.

***In one of the most grisly discoveries you will read about. An abortionist was arrested recently for some truly horrific acts, including killing babies born alive with scissors. He has been charged with 8 counts of murder. Lord have mercy.

***For some good pro-life news, actor Eduardo Verastegui has announced that his organization, Mantle of Guadalupe, is planning to build the largest pro-life women's clinic in the United States.

***The Anchoress has some news about this new Gloria, for the new Roman Missal.

BRAVO!

Toy Story 3 meets Inception.

Small Vs. Big Colleges Infographic

Small vs. Big Colleges
Via: OnlineSchools.org

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Get To Know Archbishop Dolan

Salt and Light TV has a great interview with the Archbishop of NY.

The "Smoking Gun" Letter To Bishops In Ireland Is A Dud

A host of media outlets are absolutely giddy about the reported "smoking gun" of a letter that supposedly links the Vatican directly to the abuse scandal in Ireland. But, Jimmy Akin reports it is all about the media reading something into the letter that isn't there.
"Vatican Warned Bishops Not To Report Child Abuse"!
That’s the sensationalistic headline of this story in the New York Times. As usual, it’s by Laurie Goodstein, and as usual she makes significant errors in her reporting that make the story more sensationalistic in a way that (just coincidentally) paints the Holy See in an unfavorable light. (So . . . what’s up with that, Laurie? You’ve been on the beat long enough that you should be better informed on these matters.)

As with previous stories of the same nature, this one involves a document from back in the 1990s that has now come to the attention of the press. It was a letter written by the Apostolic Nuncio of Ireland (that’s basically the Holy See’s ambassador to Ireland, though he also has a liaising role with the local bishops). In the letter the Nuncio—then Luciano Storero—communicated a message to the Irish bishops from the Congregation for Clergy concerning a document that the Irish bishops had drafted on child sexual abuse.

This letter was immediately hailed by groups like SNAP as the “smoking gun” they’ve been waiting for, showing that the Holy See took part in the cover up of sexual abuse, allowing it to be sued in court, humiliated, and have money extracted from it.
Continue reading.
This is not to say that certain individuals in the Vatican didn't have bad judgments on how to handle this issue. But, the media also has a responsibility to accurately report the facts, not innuendo. But, the media has degraded to the point of merely looking for the sensational and scandalous - forget the facts.

The Price of College

The Price of College
Via: OnlineSchools.org

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

College Student Debt

The average college grad graduates with $22,422 in debt. More info below:

Student Debt
Via: OnlineSchools.org

#1 Most Wanted on "America's 7 Most Deadly Sins"

There are seven "deadly sins" or "cardinal sins". They are:
  • Lust
  • Gluttony
  • Greed
  • Sloth
  • Wrath
  • Envy
  • Pride
For each age, it seems, we have a new favorite. Many might argue that with our over-sexualized culture that #1 on the list should be lust. I don't disagree that it is rampant, and growing worse, but I disagree that it is as socially acceptable as another one.

You might be thinking that greed or envy are most acceptable, because of our materialistic culture. I don't think so.

Maybe it is pride. We think too much of ourselves. Not #1 though.

What about sloth. Just look at your average Gen X'er. Nope.

We are such a violent people, could it be wrath? I ain't buying it.

That leaves us with GLUTTONY, which I believe has become the most socially acceptable deadly sin.

Evidence #1 - The new Starbucks Trenta cup is bigger than the average adult stomach:
To satisfy the unquenchable gullets of America's brand-name coffee drinkers, Starbucks will introduce a 916ml Trenta cup. That's more than the average capacity of the human stomach, and enough caffeine to stand in for a defibrillator.

Of course, it's not much—if any—different from a Big Gulp or any movie theater's large beverage container. But for some reason coffee's just that much more insidious. You'll be able to sample one for yourself when the Trenta rolls out nationwide by May 3rd.
Evidence #2 - Our debt:
*Average credit card debt per household with credit card debt: $15,788
*Total U.S. consumer debt: $2.42 trillion, as of June 2010
Evidence #3 - Our Weight:
Once considered an affliction of the lazy and indulgent, obesity now affects about one-third of Americans. The epidemic has swept up the wealthy, middle class and the poor; city dwellers, suburbanites and those in rural areas; and people of all races and ethnicities.
Of course their are multiple other examples. The fact is - we accept this vice. The saying "never enough of a good thing" has found a home.

Pray for change. Pray for and practice temperance.