Q - I feel a call to give more money to the Church, but I don't know where to start? How much do I give? To whom? Help me out here!
A - Thanks for the questions. Stewardship (care and supervision of something another owns) of our resources is something that many struggle with. Let me start with some principles that may help:
- All of our gifts, talents, objects, relationships, etc. are gifts from God that we are given for a short time to take care of. This comes with a serious responsibility.
- We will be held accountable for our stewardship by God.
- Tithing and stewardship are about faith not money.
- Our perception of our needs may not match the reality of them.
- We can be either tippers or tithers with God. Tippers believe God exists to serve us. Tithers believe we exist to serve God.
- Prayer and discernment should always accompany such decisions.
First, there is no mandate by the Church that we have to give a certain percentage. Still, the Biblical model is 10% of gross income as demonstrated by the following passage (as well as others):
"Speak to the Levites and say to them: 'When you receive from the Israelites the tithe I give you as your inheritance, you must present a tenth of that tithe as the LORD's offering." -Numbers 18:26Second, it isn't so much about the percent of our gift as much as what is happening in the heart. Paul tells us:
"On the first day of every week, each one of you should set aside a sum of money in keeping with his income, saving it up, so that when I come no collections will have to be made." -1 Cor 16:2
"Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver." - 2 Cor 9:7My own recommendation is that you start with a certain percent (say 5%) of whatever gross income you receive (include any money you receive in support of your expenses). Then set up a different account as a tithing account. Do nothing with this money but give it away. Give half of the % you are putting away to the church you attend and the other half to your diocese, other charities, and mission groups.
Continue to up the percent as long as you can do so until you (at least) reach the Biblical model of 10%.
Remember that faith is certainly required and that prayer should always accompany all of these acts of charity and that all these recommendations are merely guidelines. Some give away much more than 10%, some less. In fact, some give away a majority of their income, but these are the exceptions, not the rule.
God is always pleased with a good steward of his gifts. The Catechism even defines a Christian based on the principle of stewardship.
“A Christian is a steward of the Lord's goods.” (CCC, 952)Finally, think of the whole issue this way. God gives us everything we have and only asks for a small portion back.
I hope this helps.